Solo Sex and Loving Yourself

It may sound cheesy, but it’s important that you love yourself before you can love anyone else. Whether you’re currently in a relationship or single, don’t forget to date and show yourself love too. Try new activities, like using our Vulva Stimulating Serum and do the things you’ve always wanted to do. And also, learn to masturbate as a way of getting to know yourself using this short guide to solo sex.

Having solo sex is a great way to focus on your needs, appreciate your body and explore your sexual desires, preferred pressure and more. Instead of just quickly masturbating with the same routine, take your time to touch yourself slowly and switch positions. Set the tone with a playlist of sexy songs, wear your favorite lingerie or undies, and continuously touch yourself. It may be easier to let your vibrator, or any other toy/prop do most of the work, but part of this solo experience is letting your own hands do the work. Apply some of our moisturizing water-based lubricant to your index finger and gently massage it around the vulva. Its non-sticky formula means you can also caress other erogenous areas like the nipples, inner thighs and the lower stomach. 

Don’t feel as though you have to achieve orgasm immediately, or that it should be your only goal. Take your time and stay in the moment. This will give you a new mindset on your pleasure and the confidence to know what you like and how to enjoy solo sex regardless of other relationships that may come and go. After all, you’re your first and only guaranteed lifelong relationship. Enjoy yourself and all that you are!